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PORNOGRAPHY USE IS USUALLY STEMMED FROM A NORMAL HUMAN DESIRE TO BE INTIMATE AND CONNECT WITH ANOTHER PERSON. PORNOGRAPHY USE, THOUGH HARMFUL, NEEDS TO BE ADDRESSED IN A WAY WHICH INVOLVES A NONJUDGMENTAL AWARENESS OF OUR VALUES, ACTIONS AND DESIRES TO BETTER ACKNOWLEDGE AND UNDERSTAND YOUR INDIVIDUAL PATH TO RECOVERY. WORKING TOGETHER WITH A TRAINED PROFESSIONAL OR DILIGENTLY WORKING ON AN INDEPENDENT STUDY PROGRAM ASSISTED BY A COACH AND CUSTOMIZED TO YOUR NEEDS, YOU WILL BE ABLE TO OVERCOME THIS.
YOU CAN’T DO THIS ON YOUR OWN. WE RELY ON THE HELP OF PROFESSIONALS, SCIENCE AND OUR LOVED ONES TO HELP US OVERCOME CHALLENGES IN OUR LIFE. YOU ALONE DID NOT START THE RELIANCE- PROFESSIONALS IN THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY HELPED YOU TO GET HOOKED, NOW YOU NEED PROFESSIONALS IN THE MENTAL HEALTH INDUSTRY TO HELP YOU UNHOOK. WITH OUR WORKSHOPS AND ONE ON ONE GUIDANCE, WE WILL HAVE YOU ON THE ROAD TO RECOVERY IN NO TIME.
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OUR BRAINS DEVELOP A POWERFUL CHEMICAL REACTION KNOWN AS OXYTOCIN WHEN WE AROUSE OUR SEXUAL INSTINCTS, THIS CAUSES US TO CONDITION OUR BRAINS THAT IN ORDER TO FEEL GOOD WE NEED TO TURN TO THE SOURCE THAT HELPED US FEEL THOSE FEELINGS. YOU MAY FEEL LIKE IT JUST TAKES WILLPOWER TO STOP, BUT THERE IS MORE INVOLVED. WITH A SCIENTIFIC APPROACH, WE CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR BODY, YOUR MIND AND REWIRE YOU TO FOCUS THOSE HEALTHY SEXUAL INSTINCTS ON BUILDING AND SEEKING AN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP WITH A HUMAN AND NOT A SCREEN.
YOUR PARTNER IS EXPERIENCING BETRAYAL INSTINCTS AND TRAUMA THAT OCCUR WHEN SEXUALITY IS NOT CHANNELED WITHIN THE CONFINES OF THE RELATIONSHIP.
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SURE…ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. BUT AT THE STEADFAST INSTITUTE WITH OUR RESEARCH WE HAVE FOUND THAT RECOVERY AND RESILIENCE IS EXPONENTIALLY INCREASED WHEN ACCOMPANIED WITH PROFESSIONAL HELP AND ACCOUNTABILITY. OFTEN TIMES YOU MAY FIND YOURSELF WHITE KNUCKLING IT OR HOLDING YOUR BREATH MAKING IT A FEW DAYS, WEEKS OR POSSIBLY MONTHS ONLY REVERTING BACK TO OLD WAYS AND SLIPPING UP AGAIN. WE UNDERSTAND THIS COMPLETELY AND HAVE CREATED THE MOST INNOVATIVE TOOL AND METHODS BASED ON THE FOREMOST RESEARCH AND SCIENCE WHICH TARGETS THE EXACT CYCLE THAT YOU FALL INTO WHEN RELYING BACK ONTO PORN USE. TRUST US, WITH PROFESSIONAL HELP AS OURS YOU WILL FINALLY BE ABLE TO TAKE HOLD OF THIS BEAST IF YOUR LIFE ONCE AND FOR ALL.
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THE ANSWER TO THIS VARIES PER INDIVIDUAL. HOWEVER, RESEARCH HAS FOUND THAT USE OUR MODEL OF COACHING ON A CONSISTENT BASIS OVER A PERIOD OF 12 SESSIONS IN A 12 WEEK PERIOD CAN HELP ELIMINATE THE MAJORITY OF YOUR PORNOGRAPHY USE AND YOU CAN BE ON A ROAD TO FULL RECOVERY WITHIN 12 WEEKS.
EXPERTS AGREE THAT OVERCOMING PORNOGRAPHY RELIANCE IS NOT AN OVERNIGHT PROCESS. YOU CAN MAKE THE CHOICE TODAY TO WORK TOWARDS RECOVERY, BUT ALLOW YOURSELF AT LEAST 12-36 MONTHS TO FEEL CONFIDENT IN YOUR STABILITY AND PROGRESS. YOU WILL BEGIN TO SEE IMMEDIATE IMPROVEMENTS UPON BEGINNING A WORKSHOP OR COACHING, BUT THE PROCESS TAKES TIME, JUST LIKE THE DEVELOPMENT AND RECOGNITION OF THE RELIANCE TOOK TIME.
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YOU ARE EXPERIENCING THE SIDE EFFECTS THAT COME WITH A PORNOGRAPHY RELIANCE. YOU MAY FEEL THAT USING PORNOGRAPHY IS ONE OF THE MOST HELPFUL WAYS TO MEET YOUR SEXUAL NEEDS. WITH TIME AND HELP FROM A PROFESSIONAL, YOU WILL LEARN THE TOOLS YOU NEED IN ORDER TO UNDERSTAND WHY YOU USE PORNOGRAPHY, HOW IT AFFECTS YOU MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY, AND HOW TO REBUILD YOUR SEXUALITY TO A HEALTHIER AND HAPPIER PLACE.
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ACCOUNTABILITY IS KEY TO SUCCESS IN PORNOGRAPHY RECOVERY. BUT WHO YOU TELL IS UP TO YOU. SEEKING HELP WITH A PROFESSIONAL IS AN IMPORTANT PART OF RECOVERY AND SHARING SLIPS CAN PROVIDE ACCOUNTABILITY AND REDIRECTION. ANOTHER IMPORTANT PERSON TO SHARE WITH IS YOUR PARTNER OR PARENT (IN A CONSTRUCTIVE SETTING SUCH AS WHILE WORKING THROUGH A WORKSHOP THAT CAN PROVIDE CONTEXT).
THE GREATEST STRENGTH COMES FROM IDENTIFYING YOUR GOALS AND VALUES AND USING YOUR PLAN DEVELOPED BY YOU AND WHOMEVER YOU ARE ACCOUNTABLE TO. ARE YOU ACCOUNTABLE TO YOUR PARTNER? YOUR PARENTS? YOUR FUTURE PARTNER? YOURSELF? YOUR COACH?
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THERE IS NOTHING NATURAL ABOUT PORN USE OR CONSUMPTION. HIGH DEFINITION, ON DEMAND, INTERNET PORN IS A PHENOMENON IN JUST RECENT YEARS. BUT INTIMACY, HUMAN CONNECTION AND BONDING HAVE BEEN AROUND SINCE THE CAVEMEN. PORNOGRAPHY REWIRES AND HIJACKS OUR NATURAL BIOLOGICAL AND EVOLUTIONARY MECHANISMS FOR INTIMACY AND SEXUAL BONDING.
EACH TIME WE BINGE ON THE ENDLESS BUFFET OF TUBE PORN OUR BRAINS KEEP CRAVING AND SEEKING FOR MORE ODD AND EXTREME MATERIALS TO GET THE SAME CLIMAX AND EFFECT AS TO OUR LAST BINGE. BEFORE LONG OUR BRAINS FLAT LINE WITH ALL THE ARTIFICIAL STIMULATION COMING THROUGH OUR SCREENS FROM PORN THAT OTHER REAL LIFE NATURAL REWARDS SUCH AS FRIENDSHIPS, RELATIONSHIPS, INTIMACY, SEX, ETC, CANNOT COMPETE WITH THE STRAIGHT HIT OF INTERNET PORN COUPLED WITH MASTURBATION.
OFTEN YOU MAY SEEK OUT FOR HOURS UPON HOURS THAT “PERFECT” SCENE THAT OFFERS A NEW RUSH OF DOPAMINE CHEMICALS (FEEL GOOD CHEMICALS THAT REWARD OUR BRAIN) OR NOVELTY, THAT YOU CAN CLIMAX TO. IN SHORT THERE IS REALLY NOTHING “NATURAL” ABOUT PORN CONSUMPTION. YOUR BRAIN IS REALLY ONLY BEING TRICKED TO THINK IT IS NATURAL AND THAT YOUR BODY IS ENGAGING IN HUMAN CONNECTION, BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY THE ONLY THING THAT WAS CERTAIN IS THIS FALSE CONNECTION IS DRIVING YOUR DISCONNECTION FARTHER AND FARTHER AWAY FROM OUR NATURAL HUMAN DRIVE, TO SECURE MEANINGFUL HUMAN CONNECTION THROUGH INTIMACY AND BELONGING.